Baby loss support - for dads and partners

Losing a baby is a devastating experience. After baby loss, people often focus on the person who carried the baby. But as a partner, you have experienced loss too and may also need support.

Losing a baby during pregnancy or after birth is a heartbreaking experience. We have information and support to help you during this difficult time.

These pages are for dads, partners and non-birthing parents. We also hope they will be helpful for anyone who is supporting someone through pregnancy and birth. 

We use the word ‘partner’ to include:

  • the partner(s), spouse or civil partner (including same-sex partners) of the mum or birthing parent
  • the biological father of the child
  • the co-parent(s)
  • the secondary adoptive parent having a child through surrogacy. 

Our language is under constant review as we understand more about our audience’s needs.
 

Baby loss information and support for dads and partners

Join Tommy's support group

We believe that by talking about baby loss openly and honestly, we can help each other feel less alone. 

Join Tommy's baby loss support group

Read stories from other dads and partners who have experienced baby loss